Humans of UWCM – Riccardo

January 13, 2025

Inspired by the Humans of New York series, this English project encouraged our Year 12 students to tell their own stories by writing a short essay. Riccardo shared how caring for his grandmother inspired his dream to study medicine. His story reflects his passion for helping others and making a difference.

“One of the saddest moments of my life was losing my grandmother, my only grandmother. Unfortunately, I never had the chance to meet the others because they passed away before I was born, so I was extremely attached to her; she was a central figure in my life, and especially during the COVID period, we shared some truly special moments. When she moved in with us for safety, I cared for her as best as possible. I prepared her medicine and gave her insulin injections for diabetes, and she, with her usual affection and sweetness, would call me “my little doctor.” Those words, accompanied by her smile, filled me with joy.

Everything changed on an ordinary day in November. My grandmother fell ill and was hospitalized. A couple of days later, I still vividly remember that evening: I was studying for an important test when my mom came home in tears. At that moment, I understood everything without needing any words. That year, Christmas was different; her presence was missing at the head of the table at our big Christmas dinner. It was one of the most heartbreaking pains I have ever felt. Her absence is felt every day, in every little gesture and shared memory. But, despite the sadness, I always pray for her and keep her teachings alive in my heart.

That loss made me realize that my path is medicine. Taking care of her showed me how important it is for me to help others, especially in moments of greatest vulnerability. I realized that my biggest goal is to ease people’s pain and make a difference in their lives, just as I wished I could have done for her until the end. Now, my dream is to apply to Harvard, the university of my dreams, to study medicine and continue pursuing this mission of care and support, hoping to make a difference in a larger context as well.”

(Riccardo UWCM’ 26)